But you are a chosen
people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people belonging to God, that you
may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his
wonderful light. 1 Peter 2:9
Whenever my children asks me “Daddy, where do you
work?" or "what do you do?” my standard reply is that I sell
insurance. (I would dare to tell them that I am an expert in Health Care Reform,
but I do want them to think my job is somewhat exciting!)
Being a father has certainly made me understand the
importance of the message I communicate to our children. For instance, I knew that my father was in
the army reserve when I was a young child, but I could barely articulate that
he was a human resources manager for a large U.S. textile manufacturer when
asked what he did to earn a living.
Regardless, I knew that he loved me and my little sister and was a much stricter
disciplinarian than my mother was. I
knew that he wanted the best for us and worked hard to provide for our
family. I also knew that he wanted us to
be in church on Sundays and valued sitting down at the table to enjoy meals
every night after he came home from work.
You see, everything we do or say teaches our children about
our priorities, beliefs, and passions.
Knowing this we must not allow ourselves to become too busy with the
demands of our occupations or other priorities as we will surely send the wrong
message to our children.
What are you communicating to your children? Do they know that you have a heart for God’s
direction in your life? Do they know
that you are in a relationship with Christ by the example you lead?
We have an incredible responsibility as parents and wise parents will always seek God’s counsel
in raising their own children.
